The label that punishes victims of abuse
When an adult survivor of severe
childhood abuse or neglect is branded with an “Incurable Personality
Disorder” a form of abusive discourse is inadvertantly being
reproduced.
“They wont believe you”, “They’ll say your nasty”, “They’ll
say your crazy”, “They wont like you anymore” are all familiar phrases to
those who have been warned by their abusers not to speak out.
Unfortunately, many trauma survivors within the mental health
system have their symptoms minimised, are disbelieved about the severity
of their handicap, are misunderstood as an inherently difficult or
incompliant, and suffer the stigma and discrimination of the PD
label. The abuser has been systemically proved
correct.
Although
things are changing, (slowly), many still are written off an
incurable. At best some can only hope to become career
psychiatric inpatients and many take their own lives. I feel this is a
tragic state of affairs. So many treatable victims of
some of the worst crimes humans can commit have their lives blighted into
adulthood, and have to battle for services when dealing with crippling
levels of emotional pain and disability.
The term
“untreatable” can become a morbid self-fulfilling prophesy.
I have launched this site www.traumatised.org, which campaigns for the term Complex Post Traumatic
Stress Disorder to be included in the next DSM V. The
site also includes essays and offers survivors a space to share their own
experiences and argues that no victim of severe trauma, however
distressed, should be given up upon as incurable.
I do hope
that the future of psychiatry will take a more compassionate view and I
would welcome feedback and comments from any readers of this
website.